Travel the world
Life goes on as usual, there's been a lot of work with the project and other things, it's cold outside, and so on. Whatever, I'll go straight to the point - I'M TRAVELLING AGAIN! In late February, I'm going on a study trip to Hong Kong for ten days! HONG f-ing KONG! Can hardly believe it's true, I'm so happy! And, as if that is not enough, me and my boyfriend are going on a weekend trip to Barcelona next weekend!!! I actually booked that trip back in September and it was supposed to be a surprise for him which he would get only a few hours before departure. I planned everything in detail, how I would reveal it to him and how I would have his bag packed, just to screw up and accidentally reveal the trip a month in advance. I was so mad at myself that I started to cry as a child (pms), haha. He was happy, though! And when I got passed the fact that I ruined the surprise, I went back to being happy myself. You probably know by now how much I love to travel, I feel like the happiest person in the world right now!
Bosnians on tour in Kaunas
Yet another city painted in blue, yellow and white, yet another match won. My God, it was hard to watch that game, I had such anxiety when we still had not scored after the first half, although we expected at least a few goals. Thoughts flew through my head about the sadness and disappointment there would be if we didn't make it, how I would delete my instagram, blog, facebook, drop out of school and move to the other side of the world... Okay, not quite like that, but almost. The Lithuanians drove me crazy, they fought so hard like it was their World Cup ticket at stake and not ours, we even began to speculate that the Greeks had paid them. But then came the saving goal, and that wonderful final whistle. Tears rolled and everybody hugged everybody. Just that moment was worth it all!
World Cup in Brazil, here we come!
Well, what can I say? Besides that BOSNIA IS QUALIFIED FOR THE FIRST TIME EVER AND THE ENTIRE NATION IS CELEBRATING! We went to Kaunas in Lithuania to witness this event and the wonderful moment when they blew the final whistle and it was clear that we had won. The joy was overwhelming, but you can see in the video how it was celebrated in Bosnia! How we've been waiting for this after all the times we have stumbled at the finish line and still cheered over and over again with even more strength every time. You may wonder why the heck Bosnians celebrate like we've won the World Cup, when the chances are that we don't make it any further from the group stage. But just to qualify for the World Cup, along with countries like Germany, Spain and England, is a huge success for our war-torn country that didn't have a national team until after the war in 1996, when they didn't have any resources and traveled around a shitty little bus, but did their best because they knew better times and new generations would come.
But the important thing to point out is that it is about much more than just football. That success is huge when it is not moving forward for the country anywhere else, neither politically, economically nor socially. This article by Aftobladet quoted a supporter from Sarajevo: "They have no idea what they have done for the people here. We all need a little Brazil. It's not even about football anymore. This is a feeling that many of us has forgotten and the younger generation never have experienced, the feeling of success." In a country with corrupt politics, where frustration over unemployment and hopelessness creates even more conflict, the success in football is something that really unites the whole nation and all of us Bosnians scattered throughout the world.
For me, the national team represents the country in more than just football. The national team consists of people of different religions and backgrounds but who still see themselves as a team, a people, who love and play for the same country - an attitude that I wish all the people in the country shared. And despite the setbacks we rise up again, and love and cheer wholeheartedly again and again. Even when it feels hopeless. Throughout history, the country has risen from several wars and I'LL BE DAMNED if it doesn't rise from this hopeless postwar situation still going 20 years later, because that's what Bosnians do - rise. I hope this success raised hopes for the future.
I didn't mean to write a whole article, I just want everyone to know! And now the whole world who watch the World Cup will see Bosnia & Herzegovina on the map. We have fought and earned this. We have among the best, if not the best, supporters in Europe (yes, I said it, and you are welcome to refer to a nation that despite its small size literally invades cities and takes over the arena of qualifying matches). A lithuanian posted the clip below on Youtube, it's from yesterday when we marched to the stadium in Kaunas. The second video is a bit longer with the reactions and interviews with players and reporters crying. I have also cried a number of times. My own pictures and videos coming soon, right now I have no energy left.
Despite all this euphoria, I feel like I must address something incredibly tragic that has also been on my mind all day. Three Bosnians died in a car accident this morning when they drove through Poland, on the way home directly from the game. They were big supporters and one of them was the leader of a supporters group, and also took part in an interview during the day where he says (almost as if he knew) that he wants everyone gets home safely to their families without any car accidents. Life is so short and even in the most wonderful moments something so tragic can happen. Never sit behind the steering wheel tired, accidents happen in a second. My thoughts go out to their families. And everything they have done for the national team. Rest in peace.
Middle of the week update
Are you tired of my pictures from USA yet? In that case, I'm sorry but there's still a looot of pictures comming up. At this rate, hopefully all will come up before 2014. But I promise, USA is not the only thing on my mind (although it may seem so, given the picture). I thought that after the trip, which we looked forward to half a year, I would feel down when I got home, that it would feel empty, but no! In fact, I think I've never had such a positive attitude about the upcomming fall and winter! The solution is simply to plan events and more trips to look forward to and to, as often as possible, meet up with the wonderful friends you have in your life, whether you have a lot of work/school or not. Now I have had a non-stressful period in school and that's why it has been easier to plan something on weekday evenings, but I have to try to be just as social even during the more hectic periods when I'm worn and tired, because it gives me so much extra energy when I spend time with my people. Much love to you.
Speaking of school, the first urban project has started. We work in groups for the first time (which is weird that we have not done before, given that the entire profession of architecture is a group work), it will be interesting to see how it goes! Right now we are in the sketch/discussion phase. I both love and hate this phase, it's fun and not as hectic, but I just want to get to that stage when you know exactly what to do. And I would also prefer not to think about that I should start to look over my portfolio because in a few months I'm doing my bachelor project and have to start applying for a traineeship. Help.
Emerald Green
Sweater & clutch - Zara, jacket - Chiquelle.se, skirt & tights - H&M, Shoes - Vagabond
I spent my weekend in Uppsala, with nice weather and nice company! On Saturday evening we went to a housewarming party, where our group of girls from high school gathered! Yey! It's so rare, and very appreciated, when we manage to meet up just before people go away to different parts of the world again. And it was a very long ago I was on a proper home party where it's so crowded you can't even get to the toilet! However, we were a small group who later went out to end the night on the dance floor, just to make Sunday morning a little more painful. Weekends like these ends too fast.
A mini guide to USA
I have done my best to write down all the details about our trip to the U.S. in this long post, for those of you who want to experience something similar. As I said earlier, you will get to see what we have done and experienced in all upcoming pictures, but here you will get more practical information and answers to your questions.
When planning, we obviously had to find out what everything costs and make a budget. That also requires hours of researching. Check the hotels in each city and what it costs per night for the standard you are looking for (I always use booking.com). Check what all the flight costs, the rental car, gasoline, what you think you will spend on food, activities and shopping. 'Major' activities, like for example, Disneyland, or visiting Grand Canyon, should also be on the list right away because they cost a lot. Always round up and add an additional one-third of the total - a rule I always go by. We concluded that it will cost us a minimum of 30,000 SEK each without shopping and unplanned costs, so we decided to go for 40,000 SEK (≈$6300) - and that is about what we paid for everything in the end.
It's always difficult to answer questions about food, it depends on what you want to eat. Generally, the food is cheaper than in Sweden, but it's still not cheap to eat out all the time, unless you eat junk food. We figured that we would spend 300 SEK (≈$50) each on food every day. Sometimes, we spent less and sometimes more. We didn't always eat the best food and quite often, we made a visit to a fast food chain, but you can find better food that doesn't cost too much. You also spend money on bottled water and "goodies" throughout the day.
Finding airline tickets can be total chaos. For example, it is often cheaper to buy a return trip than a one-way ticket (sometimes half as cheap which means it pays to throw a ticket - crazy!). Since I had already bought a ticket from Stockhom to New York with Norwegian, the price of a one-way ticket from Las Vegas (our last stop) to Stockholm was incredibly expensive. Therefore, I made a gamble and booked a domestic ticket from Las Vegas to New York, and then I bought a return flight with Norwegian again from New York to Stockholm, which was the cheapest and fastest option (direct flight as well). The risk when you do it this way is that if something goes wrong with the first flight, eg delays, you have no guarantee on the second, because they are not included in the same booking. So you have to get your bags and check them in again. And also make sure that you are landing at the same airport and have enough time between flights. Domestic flights are not particularly expensive in the U.S. From one coast to the other it costs about 1500 SEK (≈$230). From New York to San Francisco, it took six hours. We flew domestic with Delta, Virgin America and Spirit Airlines.
We chose to book the car in advance and we booked through ebilhyra.se (it stood between them and holidayautos). Before you book, on their websites you can fill in how many days you want to rent, insurance, GPS, size of the car and whether or not you will pick up and drop off at the same place. This way you can see what it will cost. Keep in mind that insurance is much more expensive if the driver is under 25, and sometimes it's more expensive if you pick up and drop off in different cities, so be sure to select everything to get the right price. It's worth renting a GPS! However, if you rent a car for several weeks, it is more worthwhile to buy one at Walmart. You must be 21 to rent a car and have had a driving license for at least one year. For one week, we paid 3000 SEK (≈$470), plus GPS, which costs extra.
New York is the most expensive city to stay in. For a small room where there was barely room enough for one bed, we paid more than for the Hilton in Las Vegas. It is cheaper outside of Manhattan, but it's on the other hand worth staying in Manhattan since you will spend almost all your time here. We got around on foot or subway ($30 for a 7-day MetroCard). It's very easy to get around in New York thanks to their simple street system, it is almost impossible to get lost. In New York, there's plenty to see and do that don't cost so much money, for example visit Central Park, the Brooklyn Bridge and all other famous sites. The things that costs are if you want to visit the Empire State Building, Top of the Rock, Statue of Liberty, museums and such, and if you want to take the hop-on-hop-off buses.
Planning is everything, especially when making a trip like this. If you, like me, want to book most things in advance, you have to start early. I booked almost all airline tickets and hotels six months in advance. We spent a lot of time planning what cities we would visit and in what order. I even drew maps with routes, wrote advantages and disadvantages of each route, and sat a long time with Google maps and checked how long it would take to drive between cities, how long it takes to fly and so on. You simply need to spend a lot of time on Google, all of the information you are wondering about can be found on the internet.
When planning, we obviously had to find out what everything costs and make a budget. That also requires hours of researching. Check the hotels in each city and what it costs per night for the standard you are looking for (I always use booking.com). Check what all the flight costs, the rental car, gasoline, what you think you will spend on food, activities and shopping. 'Major' activities, like for example, Disneyland, or visiting Grand Canyon, should also be on the list right away because they cost a lot. Always round up and add an additional one-third of the total - a rule I always go by. We concluded that it will cost us a minimum of 30,000 SEK each without shopping and unplanned costs, so we decided to go for 40,000 SEK (≈$6300) - and that is about what we paid for everything in the end.
When it comes to the handling of money, we preferred to pay with credit card, it works just as well as in Sweden. This way, you don't lose a lot when exchanging large amounts of money. Our Swedish debit cards works like a credit cards in the U.S. (unless it is a Electron card). We were very worried that we would not be able to rent the car since they only accept credit cards, but as mentioned, there was never any problem.
It's always difficult to answer questions about food, it depends on what you want to eat. Generally, the food is cheaper than in Sweden, but it's still not cheap to eat out all the time, unless you eat junk food. We figured that we would spend 300 SEK (≈$50) each on food every day. Sometimes, we spent less and sometimes more. We didn't always eat the best food and quite often, we made a visit to a fast food chain, but you can find better food that doesn't cost too much. You also spend money on bottled water and "goodies" throughout the day.
We chose to book the car in advance and we booked through ebilhyra.se (it stood between them and holidayautos). Before you book, on their websites you can fill in how many days you want to rent, insurance, GPS, size of the car and whether or not you will pick up and drop off at the same place. This way you can see what it will cost. Keep in mind that insurance is much more expensive if the driver is under 25, and sometimes it's more expensive if you pick up and drop off in different cities, so be sure to select everything to get the right price. It's worth renting a GPS! However, if you rent a car for several weeks, it is more worthwhile to buy one at Walmart. You must be 21 to rent a car and have had a driving license for at least one year. For one week, we paid 3000 SEK (≈$470), plus GPS, which costs extra.
New York is the most expensive city to stay in. For a small room where there was barely room enough for one bed, we paid more than for the Hilton in Las Vegas. It is cheaper outside of Manhattan, but it's on the other hand worth staying in Manhattan since you will spend almost all your time here. We got around on foot or subway ($30 for a 7-day MetroCard). It's very easy to get around in New York thanks to their simple street system, it is almost impossible to get lost. In New York, there's plenty to see and do that don't cost so much money, for example visit Central Park, the Brooklyn Bridge and all other famous sites. The things that costs are if you want to visit the Empire State Building, Top of the Rock, Statue of Liberty, museums and such, and if you want to take the hop-on-hop-off buses.
If you travel to San Francisco during August, expect it to be 15°C colder there than in New York (I will write more about that in the upcoming posts about SF). Here it's also quite expensive hotels. If you live centrally, however, it's no problem to get around on foot (if you can stand the up and downhills). They otherwise have very good public transport system with trains, trams and buses, but we only took the train from the airport. If you want to visit Alcatraz without buying tickets online in advance, you can only buy them together with hop-on-hop-off bus tour, which is not so bad since you can use the bus for transportation. I highly recommend renting bikes to ride across the Golden Gate.
We picked up our rental car the last day in San Francisco and drove south along Highway 1, the coastal route. We made the trip between San Francisco and Los Angeles in two days. According to Google Maps, it would take about 7 hours to drive non stop, but you need at least two days with an overnight stay on the road because you stop all the time to take pictures and enjoy the view. The road is built so you can stop by it all the time, but along most of the way there is no access to the highway or any city so be sure to fill up gas in advance. I think it's better to drive south because it's the "right" side of the road, but you can also drive north. We booked accommodation in San Simeon in advance, a small place right between SF and LA. The hotel is called Sea Breeze Inn. Make sure to arrive at the hotel before it gets dark and foggy(!), speaking from experience.
I would not recommend going to Los Angeles if you can't rent a car. The city has huge distances and is totally designed for cars and not pedestrians, and I guess it's complicated trying to get around by public transport. When you book hotel keep in mind that the distances on the map is much longer than you think, try to book near the area where you think you will be spending most of your time, and read reviews of the area, about whether is safe or not. We stayed at the Days Inn Hollywood near Universal Studios on Sunset Boulevard, which runs parallel to Hollywood Boulevard. It's a good location if you have a car since there is an underground parking. In LA, there are theme parks that are worth visiting, such as Universal Studios, Disneyland or Six Flags - which we never visited because I am a coward.
From LA we drove two hours south to San Diego. You can also take a bus or train like our friends did. Since we stayed with friends at their university campus, I have no idea about hotels in town, but I would recommend having a car here too, although public transport seems slightly better than in Los Angeles. You can get around in Downtown by walkning but if you want to get to the beaches, it's easiest by car. San Diego border with Tijuana in Mexico, we never made a visit but the possibility exists. I recommend the nightlife in the Gaslamp District, Pacific Beach and San Diego Zoo.
Since we didn't want to drive through the desert, we took the flight from San Diego to Las Vegas which took an hour. If visiting, stay along the Las Vegas Strip (the street with all the famous hotels and casinos), because you will be spending all your time only at this street. Therefore, you don't need any car either. Hotels are very cheap in Las Vegas, so you should definitely indulge in a better hotel. There is no point in staying for a longer time in Vegas if you do not intend to party every day.
Will you go back to the U.S.? What was the best and the worst of the U.S.?
How can you as a student afford such a trip?.
- The answer is simply by working if you have the possibility, and save a lot. I worked extra whenever I got the chance and worked almost the entire summer until we went away. I calculated how much I needed to save every month and how much I would have to work to reach my goal.
what should you think about as a girl in the city? give tips on everything you come up with :D
- I don't really get the question of what one should think about as a girl... You live and behave just like you do in Sweden. Hope the rest of the post is filled with enough tips!
Can you show everything you bought? [...] I mean everything. Not just clothes, but goodies, small things and so on. I am curious about what they have there :)
- Sorry, but everything is unpacked (and eaten) long ago. I didn't shop as much as I thought I would. The clothes I bought you will see on the blog sooner or later, and much of what I bought were gifts for family and friends.
I also wonder how you went from town to town, and how you found all the places haha, did you use a map, gps or signs? :)
- We had a GPS in the car, otherwise we used the old fashioned maps. If there is anything I can brag about, it's that I am good at reading ordinary maps. But as mentioned, many U.S. cities have a simple street system with blocks and signs at every intersection. I always have guidebooks with maps with me, also a tip!
Hello! Must first say that I really LOVE your photos! So very beautiful and inspiring. I wonder where you lived in all different places and how much it cost and so on. Was it expensive to rent a car? 40,000 almost sounded too cheap for EVERYTHING . Is it really the flight , transfers, car rentals, shopping, sights , activities ? :)
- Thank you so much! I have only written the hotels I could imagine staying at again. The rental car price I have also written about. Yes, for everything, per person! But I spent a lot of time trying to find the best deal for cheap prices. The price depends on how you live, how much you shop and how much you eat. It is individual and therefore it is obviously important to find out everything yourself.
Hold your ground, we're safe and sound
It's time to write about something else than USA, otherwise this whole month will be a question mark when I read my blog in the future. I can't believe that half of September has already passed, I barely had time to blink before it went from sweating in shorts to... 10 degrees(!). It took me almost as long to recover after the trip. But now I'm back on track! I have met my friends, who filled me with lots of energy, I have shopped autumn clothes and new notebooks, pens, calendars and anything else needed for a "fresh start " and these weeks in school are really a slow start. I'm not used to having so much free time during the day. Definitely the calm before the storm.
I have also realized how much I missed Stockholm in just one month. Even if I travel to all these amazing places, it's something special about coming home to this beautiful city and the comfortableness when you know everything about it. And the more I travel and compare with other cities, the easier it gets to recognize the qualities of Stockholm, maybe also because my education has made me open my eyes to much more (we're studying urban planning right now, I love it!). It's just a shame that summer doesn't last long here, it feels like I have not had time for everything I wanted to do.
Speaking of traveling, we have booked flights to Lithuania in October to see Bosnia's last World Cup qualifier match. We booked the trip on the same day as the CRAZY match against Slovakia, when I thought I would die a number of times - the worst and the best game I have seen. If we win in Lithuania, Bosnia will qualify for the first time since it's independence, and we are obviously not going to miss the historic celebration if that happens.
And that would be everything for this update.
Questions regarding our trip
I have received a number of questions regarding our trip to the U.S., especially about the way we traveled around, planning, costs, and the classic: what camera I use. A reader asked me if I would like to write a guide on what we've done and seen. I think that my posts here already explains a lot when it comes to what we did because I both post pictures and write about it, but I understand if you can't wait for all the posts to come up (it will take me a couple of months at this pace) and that it's easier to have everything summarized in one post. Therefore I thought that if you have any additional questions, ask them now so that I know what you wonder about, and so I can answer in just one post. I'm certainly no expert on the subject and this was my first visit to the U.S., but from what I see, your interest lays in the fact that we traveled to different cities and how that worked out and what it cost. And if my experiences can be to someone's help, I will share them with you, of course.
I'll also make sure to write a post about my camera, lense, settings, editing photos and all that, not because I'm any expert in that area either (you will notice) but because it really is the most frequent question I get. I take it as a compliment though! So, thanks!
Top of the Rock
During our last night in New York we visited the Top of the Rock to witness yet another sunset over Manhattan. It's as magical every time. And I can admit that I got a serious thing for big cities like New York and Tokyo. Or megacities, more accurately. It's just so... cool.
The next morning we went to Newark Airport in New Jersey to take the flight to San Francisco. From here we saw the sun rise behind Manhattan, not a bad view either. And so we had to say goodbye to this wonderful city. But I'll be back soon, I promise.
A walk through Central Park
All cities should have their own Central Park. End of story. The park is huge, you can walk through it for hours, and it has everything from sports fields to woods and lakes. It is also incredibly well-cared. It feels like Manhattan residents are taking a vacation from the city here, in the middle of the city. I think they would have gone mad without this park, everyone should have some access to nature for their health's sake. And while you can barely hear the the stressful city sounds you can still see the tall buildings around it, as a kind of security.
Brooklyn Bridge
The plan was to get a drink on a rooftop afterwards, more exactly, on top of the Standard Hotel in Meatpacking District that I had been tipped off about. But we got hungry and made a visit to Vapiano first. It started to get late, and I began to wonder if we would get in - I didn't know if we could enter after a certain time, I just knew it was a bar. We decided to still go there, even though we were tired, and luckily, we did...
Apparently it was Le Bain. One side was the quieter part with a large bar, a grand piano and mingling people. There you could go up to the quieter part of the rooftop, with sofas and loungers, and all of Manhattan in front of you. And from there, we saw that there was a little "wilder" part on the other side.
So we went there and found a real nightclub. I have never been in a nightclub with a view like this. We still couldn't understand how we ended up here after only have planned to have a drink and go home and sleep. And like all of this was not enough there was also...
Did I mention I love New York?
From Village to Wall Street
From a concrete jungle to a beautiful Greenwich Village only a few blocks away. I absolutely love all the entrance stairs and leaning trees. It is mostly a residential area, but small cafes appear here and there, and here you get a better sense of people's daily lives than in touristy areas. Give me an apartment here, please.
I also love the parks in New York. Central Park is a category of its own which I will write about later, but there are many other and smaller parks that despite being located in the middle of Manhattan gives such peace that you just want to bring a book and sit there for the rest of the day. I was jealous of all the people in the parks that looked so relaxed, because unfortunately, as a tourist there for the first time you want time for so much more.
In Greenwich Village you can also find the famous Sex and the City steps to Carrie Bradshaw's apartment, which of course I had to look up. And, of course, take a photo on even though I had to step over the blockade that asks everyone to respect the residents. Badass. Or not. I am always very nervous when breaking the rules even though no one was there, so in the end my boyfriend said "step over the god damn chain or I will do it and you will take a picture of me instead."
We continued walking to SoHo and all the buildings with fire escapes. Here I could also spend entire days just walking around among all shops and cafes. By the way, doesn't this building remind you of the building from Friends? It's also located somewhere in Greenwich Village.
This one is for you, A.
Empire State of Mind
New York. This absolutely amazing city managed to live up to my high expectations and I missed it as soon as we left. After all you've seen, heard and read about New York through the media, it is easy to feel at home, and their simple street system makes it even easier to navigate, without it becoming monotonous or boring. Besides that, the population along with all the tourists is a mix of all the people on earth. I simply love big cities, and I love New York. You just become a part of the city pulse, which consists of lots of different sounds, lights, smells and movements, and a million people with different final destinations.
We stayed at a hotel about five minutes walking distance from the Empire State Building, which was also the first thing we saw through our window when we woke up and the last before we fell asleep. The happiness I felt when I woke up five in the morning (jet lag) and realized where we were, and the first walk through the city is unforgettable.
Chipotle! This food chain was our salvation among all fried food. Chicken, rice, beans and vegetables in a mega burrito. Yum.
The last picture is the view from our hotel window and shows Empire State Building which was lit green two days during Eid. How nice!
Back from the States
Our trip was over the top! Sure, I had high expectations, but wow, we have seen, done and experienced so much the last month in the U.S. I still haven't been able to process everything. I also haven't get used to life at home even though it's been a few days. It's always a bit hard to adapt after a long journey, but this time it has been extra difficult. We came home on Saturday after traveling a whole day, as soon as we got home I found out about some tragic news in the family which was not unexpected but still difficult to digest, and then started school right after the weekend.
Everything might have been easier to deal with if it wasn't for the jet lag from hell. I thought jet lag was something made up until now. I know it's easier to travel west than east, but when we went to Tokyo, I didn't have the same problems at all. Then, we arrived in the evening and slept right away. This time, we arrived in the morning (after a whole day of travelling as I said, with a nine-hour time difference) which made it impossible not to fall asleep during the day. And it's been like that since then, I am so tired during the day and can't sleep at night even if I manage to stay awake during the day. Luxury problems.
But I won't complain, I'm very fortunate to have been able to go in this trip, and very happy that everything went well without any complications and mishaps. I feel so satisfied, and at the same time hungry for more! I want to see the world. You will see a bit of what we've experienced since I, of course, went crazy with the camera. I just have to get into the right daily rhythm first.
July in Stockholm
It is the first time in many years that I'm home in Sweden in the month of July, and did I chose the right year to stay! What wonderful weather we've had! It may not have been the same in the whole country but in Stockholm we've been lucky. I've even got a decent tan here for the first time. I will regret these words later, but we got happy when it started raining a moment ago, my brother and I went out on the balcony and started dancing, haha. We need a little cool, it's so sticky and muggy, and constantly hot in the apartment. Crazy, for Sweden. I have really enjoyed my free time ever since I finished working. It's not easy seing people post pictures from Bosnia and Croatia, but the nice weather has been comfortning, and the fact that we will be off to the U.S. IN ONLY ONE WEEK! I will pee my pants.
She's up all night 'til the sun
Let's raise the bar and our cups to the stars
Yet another weekend spent in Uppsala, and another great party night! The pictures speak for themselves. Everyone was in a great mood and I celebrated that I've finished working, WOHO! No more early mornings and sunny days spent at the office! Let's pretend that summer vacation just began...
Just a little something
Sometimes it's hard to figure out what to give as a gift, but if you are lucky you have the extra time to think of something, and maybe something a bit homemade, which is always more fun to give away. I'm going to share with you a present that my boyfriend and I gave away recently, which might inspire someone. Making a gift basket/gift box allows you to fill it with "goodies" and adjust it both price-wise and interest-wise. You can for example have a theme. If you give it to someone who likes to draw and paint, sew, or cook - fill it with things suitable for each interest. In our case, it was gifts that represented the characteristics of the receiver (figured it would either be very lame or very good). What everyone thought was most interesting seemed to be a comic strip that I'd drawn and put in the card, and a gift certificate from UNICEF (another good tip). I made the box out of a fruit box that I wrapped in gift paper and decorated with electrical tape and satin ribbon. Finally, I wrapped the whole basket in cellophane.
Never forget 11.07.1995.
Today it's been 18 years since the Srebrenica genocide. I'd rather keep everything sad outside the blog but it is important, and even a responsibility to talk about the genocide for those unaware of it. I'm usually in Bosnia this time of the year where the Memorial Day is clearly marked, but this year I'm, for the first time in very long, in Sweden and I'm pleasantly surprised by the presence of the day even here, in social media, news, radio, and the manifestations organized in different Swedish cities. It was a very nice manifestation in central Stockholm with speeches from politicians (including Mona Sahlin), a human rights activist from Serbia, a man from Srebrenica and a singer who ended the event beautifully before we put flowers in the water. It was hard to hold back tears.
But for me the main thing this day is not to mourn, even if it is difficult to keep emotions in check. For me, the main thing is to spread knowledge about this, to make people aware that something like this can happen in modern day society. I want people in Sweden and the world to understand that my parents laughed at the nationalists and their propaganda, just as we're laughing at the Swedish nationalist parties, so sure of that there are enough people with common sense that their ideologies will never get enough support. I want you to understand that for my parents, a bloody war felt as unreal as a war in Sweden seems to us today. Unfortunately, the leaders of these extreme nationalist parties, in fact, are intellectual and cleverly manipulative, despite their disturbed values, and nothing tells us that we are safe from these ideologies in this "modern" Europe, where people let the genocide and ethnic cleansing take place only 18 years ago. Even today there are people who still believe in the war criminal's propaganda, who denies the genocide, or even worse, justifies the killing of thousands of people. But still today remains of dead people are found. Today, a further 409 people will be buried. Don't let it happen again. Use the genocide in Srebrenica as a reference and an example, closer in time than World War II in Germany, of what can happen if we let nationalist forces go too far.
We, immigrants, are all Bosnian ambassadors. It is our duty to represent, speak for and spread knowledge of Bosnia & Herzegovina. It's the least we can do, and today we have all the funds for it. Since writing is not my best skill, I will end this post by refering to other articles from Swedish news sites where you can read more about this.
Aftonbladet: Våga tala om rasismens yttersta konsekvenser
Svenska Dagbladet: Vårt ansvar att inte glömma
Expressen: Ultranationalism bakom folkmordet
(And for you who are thinking about commenting "Bosniaks also murdered, it's not only the Serbs fault, media is blaming the Serbs, etc" - don't. I have had the discussion on my blog lots of times and I summarize it again: There is a difference between attacking and defending, and murdering civilians. Nothing justifies the genocide in Srebrenica. Nothing justifies the killing of civilians and innocent people regardless of nationality. If my father would have murdered civilians in the war, I would have judged him for that. This is not about trying to make a nation look bad or blaming a whole ethnic group, this is all about highlighting something bad that has been to learn from it and to be able to work towards a future society in which different people can live side by side without nationalism and racism. End of story.)
Sara's 1st Birthday Celebration
Last Sunday we celebrated sweet little Sara! Just look at her cheeks, smile, clothes and the hair - it's no wonder that we all would rather take a piece of her than of the cake. It was wonderful to see her large crowd of fans that will always spoil her with the best, even if she doesn't understand it yet.
